These are the Qualities to Look for in a Woman.
My mum says from a point of a woman, these are the values and what to
look for in a woman to be your future spouse.
1. Beauty - she has
to be beautiful, so that you can assure that she will be like and adored every
where you take her to.
2. Smart
and intelligent - she has to be able to decide well and make good decisions without
your interference.
3. Honesty - she has
to be honest and chaste, that she will not cheat you and meet other men, when
you are away for some reasons for work or others.
4. Humble
Good House wife - she has to be able to cook and take care of your means and house
keep to make sure that your house is well kept and clean and presentable at all
time- spick and span - clean.
5. Good
Mother - be able to bear a few children for you so that your lineage and
continuation of the family name.
She must be able to teach and train her children to be well behaved
darlings.
She must refrain from smoking and drinking which is bad for the health of
her children and family.
6. Loving - she must
really develop a love for you, so that she only has you in every thought and
that of her children too.
She always respects her husband; if she has issues always seek the
thoughts of her spouse.
She will go all out to ensure that all is done for her family’s benefit
under all circumstances.
7. Caring
& Concern - She should be filled with this in all her actions, in order that
she makes sure that she protects you and your children in all situations,
according to her ability
8. Financial
controller - she must be able to manage well all the money, funds and
properties in the family, in such a way that the family, always have food on
the table, spare cash for moderate spending, plan for activities for the family
on weekends and for vacation holidays.
She has to manage the money she holds and to save and control the
expenses. She must not gamble.
9. Wisdom
and Vision - She must be able to have a wise mind such that she is able to
find solutions to all problems she faces and to be able to plan for new things
for the benefit of her family.
10. Independent - she has
to be able to stand on her own, be able to make decisions and not bother you
with simple problems.
If she is not sure she can share her problems and propose what she thinks
is the best solution for or to solve it.
Then both of you can then decide together for the solution if her
solution is not ideal.
How to assess her suitability?
My mum then tells me, to assess her, you then draw up a scale of 1 to 10,
and give her a grading.
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ASSESSMENT TABLE
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POINTS
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2
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3
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4
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5
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6
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7
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8
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9
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10
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SUM
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BEAUTY
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1
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2
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3
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4
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5
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6
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7
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8
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9
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10
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SMARTNESS
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1
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2
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3
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4
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5
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6
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7
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8
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9
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10
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HONESTY
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1
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2
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3
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4
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5
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6
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7
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8
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9
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10
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HUMBLENESS
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1
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2
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3
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4
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5
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6
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7
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8
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9
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10
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GOOD MOTHER
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1
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2
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3
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4
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5
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6
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7
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8
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9
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10
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INDEPENDANCE
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1
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2
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3
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4
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5
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6
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7
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8
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9
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10
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LOVING
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1
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2
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3
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4
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5
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6
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7
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8
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9
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10
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1
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2
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3
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4
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5
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6
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7
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8
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9
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10
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WISDOM
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1
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2
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3
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4
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5
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6
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7
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8
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9
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10
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FINANCER
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1
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2
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3
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4
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5
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6
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7
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8
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9
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10
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TOTAL POINTS
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1
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2
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3
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4
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5
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6
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7
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8
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9
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10
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PERCENTAGE %
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At the end of the assessment, total up her score and that is the quality
of the woman, you see before your eyes.
Be extremely crude and do not have any compassion when deciding.
For every point the lady must score at least 7 or 8 points.
If she is good she is good then gives her 10 points for perfection; if
she is bad then gives her 1 point.
Give a discount, maximum 20% only. Reject the woman if her score is less
than 80 points, she will be problematic in future.
Either accept or reject as necessary. If for some reasons, you still want
her as your spouse then you have to live with your decision.
The prospective lady can be shown what she needs to improve if she is
chosen, and she must agree to change and improve on herself.
She says no one is perfect, but you have to be honest and sincere,
truthful and righteous in your assessment, or else you will face the
consequences for being too lenient in your selection of your partner.
Ladies, if you want to know, how well you score on this,
just circle to answer all the questions and self grade yourself. Do Not Cheat!
Passing score point is a minimum of 80 %!
Remember Not to let your partner knows about your SCORE, and
the only Positive action for you is to try and Correct yourself and improve to
become a Better Lady!
Good Luck!
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